Luchi Thoughts

 [Source: New Oriental of: Zhao Qinghua]
I am a Luchi, and is one of the most typical, the most famous Luchi. Luchi is called when the car never wanted to walk way, do not mind road, but could not find to the road.
the most impressive first year of the new East tour to do about the national Kaoyan big when I was very honored to be selected as the teacher lectures. In Chengdu, lectures by the teacher and Mr Chan Fai Wong Lun teacher told me in the same field partner.
in Chengdu, there is a famous scenic spots called the Temple. Mr Chan is a gifted teacher, historical aspects of calligraphy and accomplished deep. So, even though time is very tense talks in the teacher's insistence, Mr Chan, we Temple was time to go visit. What I saw there is not much impressed, but an episode now, I still memorable.
because of my personal habits and character reasons, not particularly fast walking, it depends on intuition to walk. in particular to the fork in the road, the routing is still left without thinking. when I went to see two of my dear friend resolutely, thought I Road, familiar, not at all doubt my ability to recognize the road. So , walked, fewer and fewer people, the road is narrowing. two teachers out of my trust, no doubt still follow me. Until the end, I brought you a dead end. would now like to think is very interesting, in a tourist attraction, to find a dead end to find a way harder than it seems. But I did.
stopped, two teachers looked at me suspiciously face, including a lovely the teacher finally wait any longer, asked timidly: to: ; this time, I read from the faces of two teachers out of despair. silence a little, Lun-Hui Huang say I still remember the words: to get ahead, seemingly leading the way. their way, we just follow it. this idea to rely on crutches ingrained in me, when I walk, when a person did not even dare to go are not familiar with the road. because I have always told myself that I was a super way delusion, a walk to lose.
Finally one day, I want to challenge your own intelligence, in the absence of friends that came, he himself went to a strange place. did not think, from the crutch of me, actually found success place. surprise over, I think, why they can overcome such a large problem? reason is nothing but time, I think he is Luchi, so do not want to think about it, even if the brain has been implying that he is Luchi thought will get lost. so slowly lost the ability to think in this regard. And when one day, I told myself I must find a way, my mind really moving, the result will surprise yourself.
said so many, in fact not really want to tell you how to write path to find a way. On the way back, the excitement to think of our students. Now, many students in the learning process, the total need hands to help others, the total need to have a crutch on the side waiting, because either the parents or students themselves, and believe that if the lack of a walking stick, the students will have problems. This also led many students are now looking for one on one tutoring faculty, even from the school children began to burn the midnight oil constantly. once and a parent of this issue mm why our children have lost the ability to learn independently? parents in case the answer is not afraid to find tutors for children, children's learning do not increase the performance even more.
In fact, many students and parents do as I approach this famous Luchi is the same as before: to the feet of their negative psychological implications. so now I always think that if we help child to give up unnecessary crutch, and if we do not like incompetent children leads the way as to mislead, if we teach children to independent learning, independent thinking, if we can give each child enough room to play a child's future may hh is also a blue sky. In other aspects of life, so, too.